“We plot. We plan. We assume things are going to go a certain way. 
And when they don’t, we find ourselves in a new place-a place we 
haven’t been before, a place we never would have imagined on our own. 
It is the difficult and the unexpected, and maybe even the tragic, 
that opens us up and frees us to see things in new ways. 
Many of the most significant moments in our lives come not because 
it all went right but because it all fell apart. 
Suffering does that. It hurts, but it also creates.”
 - Rob Bell in Drops Like Stars